Mamata
it's story by a village woman
Mamata ek hosiyaar aur himmath se rehne Wali Ek gaon Ki ladki .Jiski shadi uske maa baap ne Das saal Ki umar main dus saal bade ladke se karvai…….
Mamata bade hoshiyar or samajhdar thi bhale hi uski umar das saal Ki thi lekin uske dimag aur sonch aisa chalta Ki jaise koi bade bachhon ka….
Mamtaa Ki shaadi bhale hi chhoti umar main hue hai lekin uski sasural walon ne mamata ko bahut hi achhe se rakha use kounsi be cheez Ki kami nahin hone di uska pati bahut achha tha vo. Us zamane me graduate tha isliye mamtaa ko bahut achhi tarah rakha..
aise vaise mamtaa Ki Zindagi guzarne lagi use do ladkiya aur Ek ladka hua.. Sab kahete Hain… Bal vivah hone se bahut kuchh nuksan ho jata…. lekin mamtaa Ki Zindagi Mein aisa kuchh nahi tha apni Zindagi achhi tarah se gujar rahi thi uska pati uska bahut cheezon me uska Sahara bana…
mamtaa ke teen bachche Ek beta or do betiyan bachpan se hi Mamata ne apne bachchon Ki parvarish bahut hi achhe Vidhi rivaz se har cheez men usne apne bachon ko sab hunar sikhaya… lekin Jo kehte Hain na Ek gandi machhali pure talab ko kharab kar deti hai vaise hi Mamata bete ka Ek dost tha wo shehar(city) se apne nani ghar aaya Hua tha .mamtaa ke bete ko uske attitude bahuth pasand aya hua ta.. uski laungue uski kapde pahene ka andaz uska rahen- Sahen sub kuch bahuth pasand aya Hua ta.. kuch din me us ladke ne mamtaa ke bete ko apna dost bana liya .. mamtaa ka beta pura din uske Sath hi guzar ta.. uski tarah hi bath karta.. uska andaz kuch alag aur kuch Acha dekh raha ta.. sub use bete Ki badle hue andaz se khush te.. lekin kuch Jayda b hame nuksan Ki taraf le jathi… kuch alag andaz Acha hi ta.. lekin uska beta us haal- chaal me ithna ghum hogaya Ki.. usse b saher(city) Jane ka dil kar raha ta.. uska dost use samja raha ta.. yaha. Gaon(village) me kuch nahi hai.. ham jaise youth log ke liye saher(city) Ki bahetar hai. Wahin hamlog hamare sapno ko pura kar sakte.. uska dost use yahin b Samaja raha ta.. Ki use shaher me uske sath ake rahe aur vahan kuch job karle..
Mamtaa ka beta shahar Jane Ki zid karne laga. Mamtaa samajane ke bhad bhi nahi rukna chaha.. Mamata Ki aur uske pati Ki khowish ye thi Ki who yahaan rahega apne pita( Father) Ki kheti badi Mein unka sath dega…. lekin wo apna career banane ki khawish se Jane Ki zidd kar raha ta. lekin Mamtaa K bete ko ye pasand nahin tha use shaher(city) Jana tha vahan ke logon se Milna tha vahan ke aadaton se use judna tha bete Ki baat sunkar donon bhi apne bete Ki marji se hi chale…… bas un log ku ithna yaqeen tha Ki unaki parvarish achhi hai… unka beta unlog ku Zindagi me Kam aayega door rahen se kya hoga. Beta tho apna hi hai..
Beta shahar chala Gaya aage badhane ke liye aur uske pass do betiyan thi un log ki shadi Ki Umar ho rahi thi mamtaa Ki baat sun ke vahan Ke nazdik ke gaoun(village) Mein apni betiyon ki shadi karayi …. kuch din bad beta wapas aaya..bete me kuch khas badlav nahin tha bas sab apne aap Mein bahut khush te..apne bete ko dekh kar….
Jaise hi waqth badal ta chala Gaya uski Beta Ki shaadi Ki Umar ho rahi thi Mamtaa ke apane Ek rishtedaron Mein Ek ladki thi Jo use bahut hi pasand thi
Mamtaa se woh ladki achi bath karthi thi ..mamtaa ko who ladki me who sub hunar te.. jo Ek waqth me mamtaa ke andar moujud te.. aisa samjo ki use dekh kar use apna 20 saal Ki Umar yaad athi thi.. isliye mamtaa ko laga us ladki ko apni ghar bahu banakar leke aye..
aise hi baaton baaton men usne uske parivar se baat karke is baat ka zikar kiya ki mujhe aapki beti ko apane bahu banana hai… is bath pe who bahuth Khush hue..ladki walon ko b yeh rista bahuth pasand aya..mamtaa Ki khandan Ki Acha naam ta.. ache ameer log te.. aur sub ke sath Acha behavior ta.. aaj Kal aise log milte kahan .. yeh bath pe ladki walon bahuth khush te..
Mamtaa ke gaoun(village) .Balki sub gaoun me ek rivaz chalta araha hai.. ek hi bath pe riste zam jate.. Mamtaa us ladki ko apne ghar Ki bahu banana chahari thi lekin ye baat Mamata Ke bete ko nahi Pata tha vaise vo naya naya shehar Mein ja Chuka tha vahan ka riti rivaz Sab kuch dekh raha tha to zahir se baat hai Ki Mamata ko pahele use bata dena chahiye tha Ki uske liye Ek ladki pasand kiya lekin nahin bataya
jaisa uska beta aaya usne rista Ki bath kare to usne saaf mana kardiye..kahan ki nahin main kisi b gauon(village) Ki ladki se shadi nahi karunga mujhe city Mein rehna hai to mujhe shehar ( city) Ki ladki se shadi karni hogi taki meri aage Ki Zindagi main shehar Mein achhe se guzar lu..
Agar main gauon(village) Mein shadi Karliya to mujhe gauon(village) Mein aana Jana hamesha laga rahega or main Jo sapne apne future ke liye socha wo main kabhi poora nahi kar paunga mujhe shehar Ki Ek padi(educated) likhi Ek job karne Wali ladki Chahiye taki mujhe city ke har Ek chote mote kamon se Judi rahe..
Bath rishton Ki thi aur gauon Mein jab koi apni zaban se kuchh kehta hai… jaise ki vachan deta hai . toh use Puri karna zaroori hota hai ya aisa samjho Ki unke uppar Ek bojh hota hai Ki unhen use… poora karna hoga…
lekin is baat men Mamata haar chuki thi …..kyonki uske bete ko ye rishta bilkul bhi nahin pasand tha unlog bahuth samjhaane ke bhad bhi uska dil me Ek hi Zidd thi.. bas use gauon Ki ladki nahi Chahiye.. bahut samjhane ke baad usne yeh kaha Ki Agar use wo shadi karega to theek hai lekin fir bhi city Mein Ek aur shadi karega…
yeh baat se gharwale bahut Naraz..hogaye.. Mamata Ki ankhon Mein aansu aane lage use aisa dekhne laga ke mere jaise achchhe ghar ka beta aisa kaisa ho sakta hai …
Phir yaad aaya aajkal ke is generation Mein kuch bhi ho sakta hai Agar hum achhe rahe to kya hua. hamare aas-pass jitne bhi log Hain..unlog b aise hi rahe..zamana kuch aisa hogaya.. Ki paraaye aur apno me koi faraq nahi hai..
Mamata lakh samjane ke bhad bhi..use kuch samaj me nahi araha tha. Kisi ki bath samajne ki hosh Mein nahi tha .. ..bas use Ek Zid lagi thi Ki mujhe city Ki ladki ya city ke jaise khandan ke logon se shadi karni hai…
Vo apne maa baap ko bina bataye phir city chale Gaya… is se maa ke mamta ko bahuth dhuk hua. Uske father be bahut naraz the vaise un logon Ki umr badhti jarahi thi ..dono khareeb 50 ,60 saal se jyda ke ho chuke..
lekin achhi baat ye hai Ki bachpan se gauon ka khana ghar ka khana aur Ek achhi limited khana khane Ki vajah se unake sehath bahuth achi thi…
50 saal ki umr me achi sehath asan nahi hothi.. jaise city ke Agar koi 50 saal hogaya toh samjho Puri tarah Buddha ho Gaya….. hai kyonki city ke khana pina bahar ka khana junkfood… aur woh kabhi apne ghar khana khate hai bas unki sonch.. lagi rehti hai Ki bas hum log chal rahe Hain shehar Mein Ek achhi class Ek achhi Zindagi jeena hai to….
hamen hotel se khana hoga Ek hamlogo pakane ke liye time nahi hai hum log ghar ke kamon ke liye time nahi hai bas hum kamate(job karna) kyon khane ke liye hum achha khate….
log yeh nahin samajh Mein aata hai Ki Jo unlog Kha rahe Hain bahar ka khana wo log ke liye acha nahi Agar hum job kar rahe hai. Acha savings kar rahe Hain toh hum log ko.. apne future ke liye.. save karke rakhna chahiye..humare liye ghar ka khana khana sehat ke liye . Acha hai..ye baat sub ko samajh Mein nahi aati jab- Tak unke samajh Mein yeh nahi aati hai ke… log already apna sehath kharab ho jata hai.. Pura bimariyon Mein guzar ne ke baad jab hospital Mein admit hota hai jab unko thoda ehsas hone lagata hai …
main jab aisa nahi karta tho……
kash main jab bahar ka khana nahi khata tho…..
main alcohol nahi pita tho…
aisa sonch leta hai..lekin jab Tak bahut waqth ho chuka hota hai.. jub pachtave ke Siwa kuch nahi kar sakte…
Mamata ka beta village Mein apni Zindagi apne maa baap ke sath gujara hai lekin… shayad un logon Ki tarah vo nahi Puri tarah se apna bana paya..
Mamtaa ka bete ne samajhdari se nahi socha tha.. use yeh sonchna chahiye tha ki.. apne maa baap ka Ek hi beta hai Agar usne unki maa baap Ki baat nahin maane to unhen taklif hogi shayad to use jaan ke aage pareshani hogi ye baat samajh Mein nahi aa rahi thi.use city ka nasha itana Chad Gaya ta ki us city ke lighting shehar ke dost shehar ke awara pan itana poora ghul mil Chuka tha Ki use ab sub achchha dikh raha tha aur usne ye samajh na thi Zindagi ab Tak uske Jo maa baap uske Dada dadi uske Jo bhi jitne bhi pura Jo guzar rahi thi….
Zindagi nahin aise hi bhole bankar jee rahe ..ye city Ki Zindagi Ki sabse achi bath wahan ke log ku yeh samaj athi hai ki.. Zindagi Ek baar milti hai use apne tarike se jeena chahiye apne aisho-Aram se guzare.. aisa karne se Zindagi Mein kuchh hasil nahi kar sakte…
Zindagi ke 5 saal guzar gaye te.. achanak mamtaa ka beta uske ghar ku agaya ta.. uske Sath ek ladki b ayi hai.. o uski biwi thi.. mamtaa ke ghar ke sub log bahuth pareshan hogaye…
Ek beta hai. Usne bataya b nahi ke usne shadi karli.. aur b shocking news yeh thi ki. Jis ladki se mamtaa ka beta shadi kara ta. O already shadi Shuda thi… uska talaaq hue ta.. Mamtaa ke bete office me manager thi.. lekin uske beta ne city ke ladki aur ache fashion related ladki se shadi karna tha.. isliye use us ladki bahuth pasand ayi…aur usne kisi ko kuch bataya b nahi.. apne ghar walon ko b nahi. Aur register marriage karli.. aur us ladki ko Ek beta tha.. o usse b apne sath leke Aya..
Mamtaa is se bahuth pareshan hogai.. uski bahuth sare sapne te.. uske bete ke shadi ku leke .mamtaa ke pati tho Puri tarah toot chuke te..unku samaj me nahi araha Ta.. kya karna chahiye..mamtaa ka bete ko jub iske bareme pucha Gaya tho.. uska jawab bahuth simple ta.. usne kahan muje jaisa samaj me aya ..Maine waisa kiya.. isme ithna shocking news kuch b nahi thi.. Maine pahele hu bataya ta ki.. muje city ke ladki se hi shadi karni hai..muje yeh ladki uska background bahuth pasand aya.. isliye Maine jaldi shadi karli.. ap ku batana ka waqth nahi ta.. jub sub kuch settled hogaya tho. Unlog ku mitane ke apke pass leke aya..muje khushi hogi Agar ap log meri biwi ko accept Kar linge.. mamtaa ke ankhon me se sirf aansu jarahe te..uske jaban se ek alfaz b nahi nikal rahe te.. bus usku aisa samaj me araha tha ..jaise uske ghar ku kisi ki nazar lag gayi…lekin Jo kismath ko manzur ho wahin hota hai.. kismath ke aage aajtak koi apna khud ka nahi chala Paya…
Kuch din aise hi guzar gaye . Uski bahu bahuth hi hosiyar thi.. mamtaa Ki property pe uski nazar padgayi.. uske beta ko Ek hi bath samj jathi.. apke parents ko apne sath city leke chalinge.. wahan my unlog ki dekh-rakh karungi.. yahan village me kya rakha hai.. wahan Jane se sub naye log ki pahechan bade gi.. is se unlog apna aage ki umr ache se guzar lenge.. aur mamtaa ke husband ki tabiyath b kharab rahethi thi .. wahan ache hospital hai wahan unka Acha ilaj karvayenge.. beta uski bath sunke. Apne maa aur baap se zid karne laga.. yahan ke ghar ko bech dena aur us paise so Ek alishan ghar city me Lena hai..
Mamtaa aur uske pati is bath ke bilkul b khush nahi te. Yeh ghar mamtaa ke pati ke Dada ke zamane ka hai.. mamtaa aur uske pati apne Puri. Zindagi usme guzara Hai.. Us ghar se unki har Ek feeling Judi Hui hai.. lekin Mamtaa ka beta apne zid pe hi har roz maa aur baap se behas karta raha..
Lekin mamtaa is bar har nahi manne Wali thi.. usne apne gaoun ke sub log ko Bulaya aur uske beta aur bahu ke bareme sub ku bataya .. wahan sub yeh faisla kiya ki.. maa baap Ki bina ijazath ghar ko hath b nahi lagana chahiye.. Agar unse zabardasthi kari tho usko gaoun se nikal denge aur uske Sath police ke hawale kardenge..is se uska beta aur bahu naraz hoke wahan se chale gaye.. mamtaa ko is bath ka thoda b Afsos nahi hua.. lekin Mamtaa Ki beta ki liye ithni mohabbth te ki. Usne is bath pe dil pe li aur kuch din bimar hogayi thi.. aise hi guzar ta raha… mamtaa ke pati Ki tabiyath bahuth kharab thi..uski akhri khowish uske beta ko dekhna ta.. mamtaa ke beta ko Bulaya gaya. Uske ane ke bhad kuch din me hi uske pati guzar gaye..
Mamtaa akele hogayi thi.. uske betiya kuch din raheke chale gaye. Beta ne shehar leke Jane Ki bath kari lekin mamtaa ko apna ghar ko chodke ane ka dil nahi ta.. usme uske pati ke yadgaar pal te.. mamtaa ke 70 Saal hogaye te.. woh akele hi apne Zindagi guzar rahi thi.. mamtaa aur uske dost sub milke Ek old age shuru kardiye. Jisme akele Bude log apni baki ki zindagi guzara jaye.. mamtaa ke helath update bahuth achi thi.. isliye who 70 saal Ki Umar b Acha apna khud ka kaam kar rahi thi. Aur old age home ki Puri zimmedari Sambhal rahi thi..
Aise hi guzar ta Gaya.. mamtaa Ko uske pati aur beta ki bahuth yaad athi thi.. har din har pal bus unlog ke yaad me hi guzar thi.. ek din old age home me ek naya member agaya.. unse milne mamtaa uske room pe gayi. Wahan dekh ke mamtaa kuch dair le liye kamosh hogayi thi.. use samaj nahi araha ta ki who kaise react kare.. Us old age ki member koi Aur nahi Balki uska beta ta.. uske ankhon me ansu jarahe te. Uski Beta Ki halath dekh ke.. phir b use is bath ki Khushi ho rahi thi ki.. ab uske. Beta uske ghar agaya .. ab use beta uske Sath hi rahega..uske woh pal apne beta ke sath nahi guzar payi who ab guzar lenge…
Mamtaa ka beta ki tabiyath bahuth kharab thi who sirf 58 years ka ta lekin Puri tarah Buda hogaya ta..uske biwi aur beta dono milkar use old gaye me dal diye.. mamtaa Ke beta Puri tarah alcohol ki shikar ban Chuka ta.. uski nadani ka faida Uta kar. Uski biwi aur beta uski kamayi aur property apne naam pe karliye..aur use akele chod diye.. uske beta mamtaa ko dekh ke bahuth rone laga.. uski galthiyon ki mafi Magne laga.. lekin maa tho maa hi hoti hai. Usne uski sari galthiya maaf kardi aur use gale laga liya..
Mamtaa uske beta ki bahuth achi tarah Seva karne lagi.. woh pahele se Acha feel karne laga ta. Woh apne maa se har din mafi maang ta.. mamtaa har Din uske beta ko naye naye pakwan banake khilathi.. uske Sath waqth guzar thi.. use kahaniya sunathi…woh bahuth khush rahene lagi..
“Zindagi ka har Ek pal Anmol hota tha.. apne Zindagi ko kisi riste ke liye Barbad na kare..
Ham ache hai aur hamari sonch achi hai.. tho hamare sath sub kuch Acha hi hoga.. bus thoda sa sabr karna hoga”
